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Welcome to this week's blog spot. Included this week are a little thank you note for our Leaders, a little humor, some quotes worth reading, and a very good articles giving some tips for worship leading in a small group (I may not totally agree with every point, but this is some very good info). Just look to the menu to the left to move around tothe different posts. Thanks!

God Bless You as you prepare to begin the Fall Season 2008 - love you all!

Tips for leading worship in a small group

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The following article is located at:
http://legacy.pastors.com/article.asp?printerfriendly=1&ArtID=11334



I lead worship at Saddleback Church, and I also lead worship for my small group. Leading worship for my small group is one of my favorite times of the week. But it's an entirely different experience than leading worship before a big group. Here are a few tips to help you and your small group worship more effectively through music.

Lead with a clean heart. You can't do something spiritual without being connected to God. You can't have a clean heart if you have sin in your life.

Plug into the power source. It's not about having to have the right song; it's about having the right connection with God.

Keep it simple. This is especially important in small groups, but it's important in all worship settings. It's a corporate worship experience, so it's important to be so simple that everyone can participate.

Be sensitive to the Sprit's leading. Watch the people you're leading. I'll watch at times and notice that people need a word of encouragement, so I'll share a word of encouragement at that time. But remember, the Spirit won't lead you to go over your scheduled time so that other parts get shorted.

Tune your instrument. Sometimes people just play louder instead of tuning the instrument. That's distracting.

Prepare before leading. Be sensitive to the Holy Spirit as you prepare, not just when you lead. I find that God leads throughout my preparation time.

Keep songs between A and D. Try to make sure there are no notes lower than an A or higher than D. Go higher or lower than those notes, and it's tough for people to stay with you.

Try starting the song with the chorus. It's usually the most familiar part of the song. This will help everyone get started with a part they know.

Line up your songs by key. Go a little higher with each song. That'll build momentum for your group.

Mix up the tempo and the feel. People get bored with the same tempo song after song. Many songs can be played at different tempos, so depending on what you need you may pick it up or slow it down.

Provide lyric books or a group songbook. I like using a group songbook because you can plan your songs. You can give your group members the seven or eight songs you're going to be using and they can use them for devotional times as well. You'll want to check and make sure that's legal with your song copyrighting system.

Use the IMPACT worship flow formula.

Inspire Movement with a song you can clap your hands to.
Praise God with a song that's about him, but is not as intimate as other songs.
Adore God with a song sung to him.
Commit with a song dedicating yourself to God.
Tie it together.


Sing songs people know. Sometimes we pick songs for thematic reasons, but group members don't know the songs. Stick with songs other people know. The point is for people to know what you're singing. You should use new songs from time to time just to keep things fresh, but they should be songs that are easy to learn.

Don't play a song for more than five minutes. People get bored quickly.

Eliminate the dead time between songs. Know what you're doing so you don't have a long time in between songs. Think through your transitions particularly. This isn't about performance; it's about communication.

Singers follow melody not chords. Make sure you aren't playing your guitar too loud. Many people don't realize how loud they are playing. Remember that people are following the words more than the chords.

Ask the group for song suggestions. That works a lot better than just playing your favorites. It should be about connecting people in the group to God, not your own preferences.

Pray with the group before you play. It's really important that we realize this isn't a performance. It's a time for worship. Prayer will start you off in the right mindset.

When you sing to God, close your eyes. Don't look at the group. Depending upon the lyrics, you can put yourself in some awkward situations when you are singing love songs to God but looking at someone else.

Remember, you're representing Christ to the small group. If you're rude during the group meeting, it will be tough to convince the group to worship later.

Don't get lost in the worship. I think it's great to get lost in private worship, but not when you're leading worship. You've got to remember that you're leading others.

Be prepared spiritually and relationally. Make sure your relationships with God and others in the group are right.

Quotes Worth Reading

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“Adventure, with all its requisite danger and wilderness, is a deeply spiritual longing written into the soul of man.” - John Eldredge, Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man’s Soul (Thomas Nelson, 2001)

“Open your hearts to the love God instills … God loves you tenderly. What he gives you is not to be kept under lock and key, but to be shared.” - Mother Teresa

“None of us is as smart as all of us.” - Ken Blanchard

“Your most unhappy customers are your greatest source of learning.” - Bill Gates

“God gave us memories that we might have roses in December.” - J.M. Barrie

A Little Humor

Posted by Word Alive International Outreach | | Posted on 11:49 AM

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Little Carol came into the kitchen where her mother was making dinner.
Her birthday was coming up and she thought this was a good time to tell her
mother what she wanted. 'Mom, I want a bike for my birthday.'
Now, Little Carol was a bit of a troublemaker. She had gotten into
trouble at school and at home. Carol's mother asked her if she thought she deserved to get a bike for her birthday. Little Carol, of course, thought she did.

Carol's mother, being a Christian woman, wanted her to reflect on her
behavior over the last year, and write a letter to God and tell him why she
deserved a bike for her birthday. Little Carol stomped up the steps to her room and sat down to write God a letter.

LETTER 1:
Dear God:
I have been a very good girl this year and I would like a bike for
my birthday I want a red one.

Your friend,
Carol

Carol knew this wasn't true. She had not been a very good girl this
year, so she tore up the letter and started over.



LETTER 2:
Dear God:
This is your friend Carol. I have been a pretty good girl this year,
and I would like a red bike for my birthday.
Thank you,
Carol

Carol knew this wasn't true either. She tore up the letter and started
again.



LETTER 3:
Dear God:

I know I haven't been a good girl this year. I am very sorry. I will
be a good girl if you just send me a red bike for my birthday.
Thank you,
Carol

Carol knew, even if it was true, this letter was not going to get her a
bike. By now, she was very upset. She went downstairs and told her mother shewanted to go to church. Carol's mother thought her plan had worked
because Carol looked very sad.

'Just be home in time for dinner,' her mother said.

Carol walked down the street to the church and up to the altar. She
looked around to see if anyone was there. She picked up a statue of the Virgin
Mary, slipped it under her jacket and ran out of the church, down the street,
into her house, and up to her room. She shut the door and sat down and wrote her letter to God.



LETTER 4:
I GOT YOUR MAMA.
IF YOU WANT TO SEE HER AGAIN, SEND THE BIKE.

Signed,
YOU KNOW WHO

Fall Season 2008 - It's on!!!

Posted by Word Alive International Outreach | | Posted on 11:45 AM

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Dear Ministry Leadership Team

Thanks so much for responding to our call for the "FALL SEASON 2008" leaders.

We have a wonderful variety of small group that will be meeting during the 10 week season.

For those of you who were not able to lead a group this season, thanks for prayerfully considering the opportunity. I am so excited that we can take each season to lead, attend, or rest - and all of these are good options. I hope you will be thinking and praying about a LIFE group that expresses your passion for the Spring 2009 Season.

This weekend I will teach on "SEASONS of LIFE" and the book detailing the LIFE Group opportunities for the Fall Season will be distributed.

If you had planned to lead a group or would still like to do one and are not in the book, we will be printing a bulletin insert next week for any additional groups that missed the publication. Please let Heather know as soon as possible.

Thanks again and God bless you all!